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The Cock Tease: How to Recognize the Flirty Games She Plays

Want to know if she’s a cock tease? Of course you do. Here are the biggest signs her vixen antics are leading men into blue ball hell.

If men are players, women are cock teases. A cock tease generally refers to a woman who leads a man to believe he’ll be getting laid without any intention of following through.

Men tend to shame women for being a cock tease. In reality, women are playing the same game men play, only in reverse. Men lead women on until they get sex, and then they bail. Women also lead men on for gain, with the promise of sex, and bail once they get what they want: usually drinks, paid outings, or attention.

Does it make her a troublemaker if she doesn’t want to sleep with a guy just because she’s flirting with him? No way! Alright, so guys might be pervs for expecting sex from a girl just because he drove her to her doctor’s appointment, but if her cock teasing ways have turned into a sexy excuse to use someone else for personal or financial gain we have just three words: shame on her!

The difference between a cock tease and a flirt

You may be wondering what the difference is between a cock tease and simply being a flirt. The truth is, besides a social perception of flirting being ‘innocent’ and a cock tease being ‘frustrating,’ there seems to be little that separates the two actions.

Both flirting and cock teasing involve implications of a sexual nature that includes flattery, body language, and posture that indicates a deeper chemistry.

So, what’s the difference? A tease implies the woman in question has absolutely zero intention of going through with the down and dirty. She just likes being liked, to be frank.

She likes having a man swoon and fawn over her, buy her things, and fulfill *sometimes outrageous* requests just because she says so.

The characteristics of a cock tease

It is possible your girlfriend is a cock tease and you don’t even know it! Has some innocent flirting turned down a wicked path? Here are 8 signs she’s a cock tease whose driving men wild… and not in a good way.

#1 She always leaves her wallet at home. Picture this. She asks her girlfriends if they’re up for club-hopping tonight. When they tell her they’re broke, she shrugs and gives a telltale smile as she says: “Don’t worry about it.” She has no intentions of paying. In fact, she leaves her wallet at home. Why? Because she knows she’ll find dozens of men willing to spring for her evening.

She’s a cock tease if she lets hopeful hotties buy her drinks all night at the bar and then bails when they think they’re going to close the deal.

#2 She already has a boyfriend. Many cock teases maintain serious romantic relationships while still showering their male friends with confusingly flirtatious attention.

If she’s are already in a relationship and is still telling her guy friends she loves them, exchanges flirty texts, and asks them for favors, then she may just be on a cock teasing rampage.

#3 She only texts when she wants something. We’ve all had that one friend who’s never around when you need them, but always seems to creep back into your life when they want a favor. This is a total cock tease M.O.

She only comes around when she needs something, and then she’ll charm you until you say yes. Common favors include: borrowing/asking for money, getting rides, or asking men to pay for certain things such as clothes, prescriptions, or alcohol.

#4 She doesn’t care about you. If the object of your affections acts like everyone else is more important than you, take that as a huge hint that she’s playing you. A cock tease doesn’t care about the details of your life, where you grew up, or what music you like. More than likely all she cares about is you telling her how sexy she looks tonight. Oops.

#5 She bails on plans. Does this girl seem to have the busiest life humanly possible? If you want to hang out and she always seems to have an excuse not to, she probably isn’t into you. And if she does make plans with you, there’s a 99.999% chance she’s going to cancel – unless she’s getting something out of it.

#6 She only does things on her terms. On the off chance that she does actually commit to plans with you, they have to be on her terms. She decides where you go, how long you’re going to be there, and has full say on what day you hang out.

This is yet another sign that she doesn’t give priority to you or your schedule. When you do finally get together, she might be glued to her phone and may even have invited other people along. Any card she can use to show you this isn’t a date is going to be played.

#7 She doesn’t share. You like her, you like hanging out with her. She cute and charming and fun to be around… but come to think of it, you have no idea who she is. The cock tease doesn’t share much about her life.

When you ask her about herself, she’s vague and gives wishy washy answers. This is because you are not a priority, and creating a personal bond with you isn’t even a thought in her mind.

#8 She’s a huge, huge flirt. Everything this girl does seems to have delicious flirtation laced all around it. She has her flirt game down pat. She knows the hair flips, the playful punches in your arm, the body language, the touching, and her double entendres perfectly. This girl knows exactly what she wants and exactly what you’re not getting.

There’s nothing wrong with some harmless flirtation so long as both parties are interested. Just know when you’re getting charmed and when you’re getting played.

In summary? Being a cock tease can be a fun and flirty turn on for all involved – but don’t let her leave you in blue ball hell for too long. Don’t waste your time with someone who can’t appreciate you for more than your wallet. The minute you find out she’s using you, move on – because she sure will!

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