You’re never getting attractive if your profile doesn’t look good. But what is a high quality profile? From our experience, a killer profile is merely a written example of who you are as a person, with an interesting tweak.
In general, you should be a truthful man that has something to offer a woman (looks, great sense of humor, or be amazing in bed). Here is an example of a profile summary and description which received great response:
I’m not going to beat around the bush and tell you I’m some sort of hopeless romantic that enjoys long walks on the beach, cuddling, and thunderstorms. You’re not here to know that about me. I am a happily (mostly) married man that desires a sexual relationship, along with a friendship (I can’t sleep with someone I don’t enjoy being around). I would like to meet a woman that is easy to talk to, has no problem dealing with a smartass (that’s me!), and agrees that this should be a mutual relationship – we both please each other.
I may or may not sleep with a woman on the first date. I’d like to get to know you over a couple of drinks to see if we click on both an emotional and physical level. I’m not shallow, but I do need to be attracted to my partner. My description of the perfect affair partner is someone that is married (absolute MUST), is attractive, has a sense of humor, and is intelligent.
Do I seek anything else from you other than sex? Yes, actually I do. Not an emotional relationship, however. But it would be nice if you’re also available to go out for drinks from time to time, maybe catch a ballgame, or watch a movie. I’m not all about sex. My marriage is very boring, although I do love my wife. I need a little spice in my life. I’m not looking for a one-night stand. I could go out to a bar to find that. I want a woman that will stick around for a while. If you do, I promise I’ll give you plenty in return! If you meet have the above qualities, I’d love to hear from you.
In the summary and description, you might have noted the following requirements of a killer online dating profile:
- Mildly humorous
- Short description of who I am and what I’m looking for