So you think you know all it takes to please a man in bed? Come on. Read up on these tips to really be an expert on what men like in bed.
Contrary to popular belief about guys, not all sex is good. They’re just not always vocal or specific about it.
While men are biologically wired to be easily and more quickly gratified than women, some guys will tell you *if they dare* that there are some good lays, some bad lays, and some plain so-so lays. There are some sex moves that drive them crazy, and there are women who they just can’t get enough of in bed. There are also certain things that they want and prefer in bed, and doing these things for them will leave them so much more eager to please you in return.
What men want and desire in bed
#1 When you drop hints. When it comes to women, men can sometimes be pitifully clueless. Men like it when you drop hints on how much you want him tonight; whether it’s through a subtle sext or an all-out sexy photo, they just love to be teased.
#2 When you’re being naughty. Even when you have that naughty streak in you, you may often hold back when it comes to your man, especially when you’re in a serious relationship. This could be caused by the fear of shattering that “good girlfriend/goody two shoes” image that they hold you in. However, men also want to see that feisty and raunchy side of you, especially in bed.
#3 When you let him watch. Men are visual creatures, there’s no question about it. So make sure to give him a good eyeful when you’re getting it on. Better yet, position yourselves in front of a mirror and give him a great view. You can also make him watch you as you undress, get dressed, or even touch yourself.
#4 When you give him a wake-up call. A sexy one, that is. To a guy, there are only a few things that are as awesome as waking up with a girl on top of him, riding his morning wood. So every once in a while, when you find his pole up in the morning, try to tease it a little and wake him up with a delicious breakfast spread: you!
#5 When you turn yourself on. Women can need a lot of things before they get into the mood. For guys, it may just be too much work, so he’ll surely like it if you give yourself a head start every once in a while. Get yourself into a sexual state of mind, even if it means fantasizing about Channing Tatum instead of your man *just don’t tell him about it*.
#6 When you take matters into your own hands. Often, men like to be touched and aroused by your hands. Therefore, if you want to give your man a little something extra, brush up on your hand job skills and surprise him with how well you can get him off with just your hands.
#7 When you use your mouth. Of course, there’s nothing as sensual as your mouth and how you use it to please him. Kiss him somewhere else aside from his lips, and trace his erogenous zones with just your lips and tongue. Lastly, give him a blow job that will totally blow his mind.
#8 When you tell him he’s good. Men want an ego boost every once in a while, and this extends into the bedroom as well. Tell him how good he is in bed and the specific ways he turns you on or makes you feel good, and you can expect him to do those things more often—to your pleasure.
#9 When you go around in circles. It’s nice when you go around in circles on your man. And we’re not talking about mind games, but how you move in bed when you’re on top. Moving your hips around gives him the most unique and exquisite sensations, especially when you create oval shapes that can stimulate your clitoris and G-spot, too.
#10 When you do it at an angle. This applies to when you are doing it doggy-style. Instead of the usual position and angle, change it up a bit by lowering your chest onto the bed and presenting him with a more open view of your behind as he stands behind you. Aside from stimulating your G-spot, you’re also giving your man a great view of your back and buttocks, as well as making the fit tighter.
#11 When you take charge. Girls come in different ways, and they have different wants and pleasure points. Guys don’t like to play the guessing game because it makes them feel amateur and awkward. What you can do is take charge every once in a while and give him directions about what you like and how you like it.
#12 When you leave a landing strip. While these days, most women go bald thanks to the Brazilian, some guys just don’t want you to go too bare. It can be too much for them. What you can do is to channel that 70s porn star look and leave a little landing strip down there.
#13 When you channel your inner sailor. Some guys love dirty talk. While you may be meek and never even curse outside the bedroom, try a little dirty talk while you’re together in the heat of the moment. Try a few tamer words first to see how he likes it, and you may find that he gets turned on with your little potty mouth.
#14 When you have a flair for fantasy. It’s every man’s dream to sleep with different women in bed—though they just won’t admit it. Why not give him his wish by letting him bed a different woman each time through role play? Go about this by talking about your fantasies and take it from there.
#15 When you blow his mind. Nothing can turn a man on faster than seeing you being really into it. After all, there’s no such thing as mind-blowing sex with just one person enjoying it. You have to be in it together. So just turn the heat up and let your bodies take you to the heavens and back—no holds barred.
#16 When you mix things up. It’s always nice to have variety in your sex life. If you find yourselves always doing it in bed in the same position, start to try new positions and places you’ve never tried before. Experiment and be open-minded about all the sexual possibilities.
#17 When you rub him in other places, too. It’s not just his manhood that is sexually sensitive and arousing, you know. You can touch him in other places to please him, too. For example, you can give him a backrub and slowly run your fingers through his hair to excite him.
#18 When you surprise him. Everyone loves surprises, and a good way to spice things up in bed is to do something that will catch him off-guard—in a good way. Try doing something unexpected like waiting up for him in bed in your new lingerie, ready for the “next show,” or giving him a little strip tease instead of just undressing.
#19 When you do something kinky. Sometimes, men like it when you let out your freaky side, too. From role-playing to being a little dominating by giving him some orders about what you want in bed, or going all-out with all your hidden kinks, there’s nothing wrong with letting your inner freak come out.
#20 When you make it fun. Sex should be fun, so when you put pressure on the deed or plan everything, it’s like a cold shower for him. A man wants someone who is open to just pulling over at a nearby motel and doing it spontaneously. Looking forward to the next deed fuels his libido and makes him want to have sex more.
#21 When you don’t hold back. Guys go gaga when a woman is all-out in bed. You don’t have to be like the hardcore porn stars moaning and cursing the whole time, though. Just the fact that you’re being your natural self and you’re not holding back or being insecure is enough.
#22 When you do nothing. When it comes to the bedroom, or generally being with you, things don’t really have to end up with sex every time. This is especially true if a guy is truly, seriously into you. Sometimes a great cuddling session just can’t be beat!
While these tips are helpful in finding out what guys generally like in bed, it’s still up to you and your man to experiment and explore what pleases both of you. After all, what drives him crazy in bed is knowing that you’re crazy about him, too.