Sex in a car is the ultimate thrill ride in a budding sexual relationship. Find out how you can make it happen and how to make it the best ride ever.
One of the most common questions people ask their new partners is this: “What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done, sexually?” For the vanilla sex enthusiasts, many of them will admit that the riskiest thing they’ve ever done is have sex in a car in a public place – shocking!
But have they really experienced the awesome thrills that car sex can offer? Car sex is anything but comfortable. Most people end up getting so nervous that they can’t even enjoy it. There’s also the issue of compact cars and positioning.
That’s why you have to prepare for the event, even if it’s a spontaneous urge in the middle of a long drive home. It can be difficult to convince your partner, especially if neither of you have done it before, but that’s what we’re here for.
How to have steamy sex in a car
Before anything else, you have to think about how you want to go about this. Is it something that you want to do as soon as possible? Or are you just making the necessary preparations, in case the opportunity presents itself?
If it’s something that you and your partner want to try, you should discuss it thoroughly. Having sex in a car is risky because you can get caught. It’s technically legal in some parts of the world, but taking your clothes off inside a car parked in a public place can be grounds for arrest – indecent exposure and whatnot.
If you’re about to try this with someone you just met, make sure that you know what to do. How are you going to propose the idea? Where do you plan on doing it? Is your car sex-friendly? All of these should be factored in, so that you and your date can have an awesome round of steamy car sex.
You have to be very careful about when and where you do this, as well. You need to scope out a location that’s both safe and isolated. You don’t want to get mugged just because you wanted to get off in your car.
Preparing for getting it on in a car
Before anything else, let’s discuss how you can prep for the main event.
#1 Get a car. The best type of car to use is one that has adjustable seats and lots of legroom. SUVs are perfect because you can do it in almost any part of the car. If you own something smaller, check your car to see which position would be convenient for both you and your partner.
If there’s enough room for your partner to straddle you on the driver’s seat, then go for it. If not, you should opt to start the show in the backseat. Some people might be willing to try it on the hood or the trunk of the car, but that’s way riskier.
If you’re positive that you’re in a relatively secure and isolated area, you can go all out and even turn on the headlights for that music video effect. I’m kidding, but wouldn’t that be so cool?
Basically, your best bet is to maximize the space that your car offers. Whether it’s a pickup truck or a tiny European car, make sure that it has enough room for you to move in. Also, we don’t recommend buying a car for the sole purpose of having sex in it. So, borrow one if it’s that important to you.
#2 Prep the car. Before you invite someone to get in your car, let alone have sex in it, you better clean it up, or else you won’t be getting anything more than a handshake and a good night. People don’t want to have sex in a dirty car. People don’t want to have sex in a dirty anything. If your trash is all over the place, the mood will disappear quicker than you can say, “Automotive.”
Have a bunch of necessary items in the car as well, such as tissues or wet wipes for the mess you might end up making. If you’re worried about the upholstery, you can also stock a blanket in the car, so any fluids won’t get on your precious seats.
Lastly, if you have a stereo system, make sure that your playlist is ready to go. Prepping the car isn’t just about appearances, you have to set the mood as well.
#3 Prep your partner. Make sure that you and your partner are on the same page. Some men and women are iffy about car sex for various reasons. Don’t surprise them with a sudden invitation if you feel that they’re not the type who are open to it. Ease them in by talking about it in a nonthreatening setting like a cozy night in or a casual date outside.
If they’re not sure about it, give them an idea of what you’re expecting. Tell them how fun it would be, and that you made sure to prepare for it. Tell them about the risks as well, like getting caught, pulling a muscle and being too nervous to finish the job. Hey, full disclosure, right?
Don’t force them into it or guilt them into doing it. Let it rest, and maybe one day, they’ll finally be open to the idea.
#4 Find a location. Even if you’re doing it in a car, sex is still intimate and should be as private as possible. If you get a kick out of people watching, fine, but don’t say we didn’t warn you about the legalities. Barring strange and inappropriate fetishes, the location of your car has to be as isolated as possible.
You don’t want to flash someone passing through or risk being caught by anybody. It’s going to be pretty embarrassing if that ever happens. So, where are you supposed to go? Here are some suggestions:
– A private parking lot. Preferably ones in a garage. Public parking lots are full of people. Most of them won’t hesitate to Snapchat the heck out of you.
– An out of the way location outside of town, but near emergency stations. You know those overlooking peaks in movies? Find one, and make sure it’s near a place where you can get help immediately, in case anything happens.
– Your garage. Your goal is to have sex in a car. No need to be picky.
– A dark spot in a safe neighborhood. Don’t try this in a busy city where criminals run rampant. You want privacy in a dark area, not an excuse for people to rob you.
– The woods. It’s a very convenient location since no one goes there, unless it’s during the day. Just make sure that your doors are locked, you’re near an emergency station, and that you’re parked near the edge of the woods. Don’t drive all the way in just because you think it’s more secluded.
How to make sex in a car even hotter
Once your car is finally in place, we can finally get to the steamy part. Don’t just jump your partner’s bones once you’ve cranked the handbrake. You have to set the mood, do a little bit of foreplay and set yourself up for the last leg of your evening.
#1 Make sure you’re both comfy. Move the seats back, roll down the windows or turn the AC on, and just enjoy the moment before the fun begins. Put some music on, and don’t be in a hurry to start.
#2 Talk about what’s about to happen. There’s something sexy about elaborating on what you’re about to do before sex. It’s hotter when you’re about to have sex in a really exciting place. Build some anticipation and verbal arousal before you get into it.
#3 Start slow. Make out. Make it last. Enjoy this moment, because you won’t be able to do this on a daily basis. It’s best not to push your luck, anyway.
#4 Invest in foreplay. It’s going to be difficult to do this in a car, especially if you’re both in the front seats. You’re better off focusing on your partner’s neck, chest and thighs. This will require a lot of hands-on work, if you know what I mean.
#5 Position yourselves. Tell your partner how you want this to happen. Don’t forget to ask them if they agree or if they have another suggestion in mind. It’s not going to be easy to transition from your seats to a straddling position or lying down in the back. Just get there, and continue what you started.
Pro tip: Sex on the car is way better than sex in the car.
#6 PROTECTION, PROTECTION, PROTECTION. This is just a PSA for people who are not on birth control or are about to have sex with someone they just met. Wear a condom, for crying out loud.
#7 Don’t rush. If you’re pretty sure that no one’s going to catch you, try not to hurry. Treat it like regular bedroom sex. Make it last, and make sure both you and your partner are satisfied before you drive home.
Having sex in a car is undoubtedly one of the easiest ways to get a sexual adrenaline rush. And you’ll never be able to look at your car the same way again!