Want to know how to get the guys drooling over you without even trying? Read on for the male perspective on turning guys on every time.
It’s one thing to turn a guy on once he’s in the bedroom—after all, guys are pretty easy to please. A quick fumble, a slip, and a shot, and we think we’re the greatest lovers that the world has ever seen! It is, however, an entirely different thing to catch our attention to the same degree at an earlier stage in the evening.
Not that a pretty face will go entirely unappreciated, but turning him into a raging ball of lust through the use of feminine wiles alone takes a whole different skill set. If you’re in the market for a fairly comprehensive list of male turn-ons that you can use to get the man you’re interested in out of your sights and into your bed, then read this list of 20 tips, divided into the five categories of Dress, Body Language, Talk, Touch, and Other.
#1 A good choice of particulars. The correct choice of underwear can be a massive turn-on for guys. Sheer panties, for instance, with no visible lines to hint at the promise of already having been removed.
#2 None of the above. With regard to the previous entry, less is definitely more. The only thing that is better than sexy underwear is NO underwear. The outstanding delights of a forsaken bra are bound to put some lead in his pencil.
#3 War paint. A good smattering of makeup is also another point of attraction for guys. It sends out little signals to his subconscious—little hints that you are up for more than just a polite conversation and a game of chess. That lipstick on the glass might seem innocent to you, but in his mind, that glass is being replaced with all kinds of other images. Just make sure it isn’t the kind of makeup you wear to go and see grandma.
#4 Heels. A great part of sexual attraction is making the most of traits unique to your gender. Drawing a man’s eyes to your legs, through the use of a pair of high heels is a time-tested example of exactly this.
#5 Lip-licking good. The tongue is an extremely sensual part of the body, and any display of it will have temperatures soaring. Licking the lips takes it a whole stage further, and don’t be surprised if he’s unable to get up from his seat for a while.
#6 The Sharon Stone. The classic knee-crossing move of movie legend, you don’t have to remove your panties to have the object of your desires panting like a labradoodle.
#7 The leaning-to. If your greatest assets are found on the upper half of your body, make the most of them. An indiscreet lean forward at the right time can give him an eyeful of trouser-popping glory and get him firmly on your sexual hook. Taxi!
#8 The lean-off. A similar principle to #7, but this time taking advantage of a well-shaped posterior. The trick is to lean away and ensure that he gets an eyeful of wiggling wonderment.
#9 The Scarlett Johansson. The second actress to make an appearance on the list, the Scarlett describes that husky way she has of talking that, for some unknown reason, has males wilting like summer spinach. Give it a try, ladies. It works.
#10 Sharing fantasies. Slyly introduce the subject of fantasies into the conversation, and then use that as an excuse to introduce some of your own in an innocent and hesitant manner. They don’t even have to be real, but they will have him hanging on your every word.
#11 Sharing past experiences. Ditto #10, but relating past experiences this time. I hope you’ll be wearing earplugs, though, because his jaw will hit the ground with a resounding thump when you share all. Again, it doesn’t necessarily have to be true for the purposes of this exercise. He wouldn’t care, anyway. And if you really want to turn him to mush, tell him about some lesbian dorm room drama… light the touch paper, and stand back!
#12 Future promises. Turn 10 or 11 around, and turn it into a conversation about what you’d like to try—or try again—in the future. M’lady, he will be all yours.
#13 The kiss. When presented with the opportunity for a hello, goodbye, or thank-you kiss, don’t waste it. Make it lingering, full-blooded, and very, very hot.
#14 The brush past. At some point in the evening *on the date, etc.* make an excuse to squeeze past him—to go to the restroom or bar, for instance. When you do, make sure your brush-past is pretty full contact. Back half for an instant turn on, front half for instant taxi-home-not-alone.
#15 The hand on. Women are really good at using their hands in a way that leaves men unsure as to whether the contact was just friendly or a whole lot more. So, don’t touch his knee mid conversation; go for the thigh, instead, and experience instant results. The penis might be a tad too much. You don’t want to go down as the town bicycle.
#16 Footsie. A bit of classic under-table footsie doesn’t really get the juices flowing. In fact, most guys see it as a bit lame. However, rise from shin to thigh, or even higher, and that’s a game changer.
#17 A lot of front. Confidence is definitely one of the more abstract qualities a woman can display, but is an incredibly important one. A woman who enters the room, knowing she has no competition, has the alpha males stirring in their seats.
#18 Grey matter. Depends upon the male in question, but a lot of guys just can’t get turned on by a woman whose idea of a sophisticated night out is sneaking a bottle of convenience-store bubbly into McDonald’s.
#19 The perfect scent. A well-chosen and applied perfume can be a real turn on for a lot of guys–as long as it’s applied, that is, and not bathed in!
#20 Living la vida loca. The fun-loving princess of the local establishments that everyone knows from afar and secretly yearns for—this is the woman, the exciting and vivacious exemplar of womanhood, that really gets a guy’s mercury shooting to the top of the thermometer.
With great sexual attraction comes great responsibility. The power is in your hands, ladies–use it wisely!