If there’s one thing guys are worst at hiding, it’s how hot you look to them. These signs a man is attracted to you sexually are painfully obvious.
Men aren’t exactly reserved when it comes to showing a woman they think she’s smokin’ hot. They may think they’re being aloof, but their facial expression and body language always give them away. If you know what to look for, you’ll be able to read the signs a man is attracted to you sexually in the blink of an eye.
Now, there are many reasons you’d want to have this skill. For one, you’ll be able to tell if he’s only attracted to you sexually or if he likes you for more than just your appearance. You’ll also be able to tell who you can approach with confidence and avoid rejection.
Why sexual attraction matters in a relationship
There will be people out there who argue that being sexually attracted to someone isn’t important. However, experts disagree. They say it’s vital for a healthy, functional relationship and it has more to do with science than anything else. Sure, it’s nice to be able to look at someone and enjoy it, but sexual attraction is more about genetics than you might think.
When we seek a partner in life, our body chemistry is working around the clock to assess their pheromones, bone structure, and even their voice. This is all sorted out in our brains – without our conscious knowledge – in order to determine if they’re someone we would produce healthy offspring with.
Signs a man is attracted to you sexually
Thankfully for us ladies, it’s not too difficult to tell if a man wants to hop in bed with us. While it may take some getting used to at first, reading the signs a guy is sexually attracted to you can be really easy. Here are some painfully obvious signs he wants to get with you.
#1 His eyes are all over you. The great thing about when a man is sexually attracted to you is that he can’t always control his own wandering eyes. This is great for you because you’ll be able to detect just what they’re looking at.
If he’s eyeing you up and down and can’t seem to keep his eyes off of you, it’s definitely a sign he’s sexually attracted to you.
#2 Parting of his lips. Something that we all – including women – do when we’re sexually attracted to someone is part our lips. It’s as if we’re getting our mouths ready for something to come. Men do this just as much as women and it happens at first glance. Therefore, if you see his jaw seemingly “drop,” it means his mind is definitely in a naughty place.
#3 He gets – and stays – really close to you. Another thing we do subconsciously is move closer to someone we visually think is attractive. Yes, we do realize this is something we do from time to time, but our bodies are actually doing it for a different reason.
When our minds assess that someone is physically compatible with us – aka, they look good – we then move in so we can inhale their pheromones. This helps our body do a chemical assessment of whether or not they’d be good for us. So if he’s moving in close, just know that he already sees how hot you are.
#4 He sits with his legs wide open. Men don’t even realize they’re doing this, but it definitely means he’s thinking about sex in the back of his mind. This is done as a way of “showing off” what he has to offer. Aka, his package. If you notice a man sitting with his legs spread open and facing you, he thinks you’re sexy.
#5 He touches you. Touch is another one of the obvious signs a man is attracted to you sexually. When he’s finding any excuse in the book to get close to you and touch you, he wants you. And if he’s doing this often, he really finds you appealing.
#6 His face flushes. When we get turned on, our heart rate increases and our blood pressure goes up. The physical sign of this is when our faces go red. Men are the same as us ladies in this sense, and this is one of those obvious signs a man is attracted to you sexually. If you see him blushing majorly whenever you come around, he thinks you’re sexually attractive.
#7 He makes great eye contact. People who find you sexually attractive are going to want to connect with you. One way us humans do that is by making eye contact. It’s a way to get your attention and show that they’re interested. So any man who finds you fine as hell will definitely be looking you in the eyes – for the most part.
#8 Major flirting. Flirting is by far the most obvious of the signs a man is attracted to you sexually. If he’s engaging with you in a really fun and flirty way, he definitely thinks you’re desirable.
#9 Talking deeply. This is meant literally. When a guy finds a woman attractive, he’ll subconsciously try to make himself sound “manlier.” In order to do this, he’ll lower his voice and talk much deeper than he would if he didn’t think you were sexually attractive. Therefore, if you notice a guy dip his voice down when he talks to you only, he’s into you.
#10 “Fixing” himself. Everyone does this when they find someone attractive. They’ll see you and then automatically pat themselves down, fix their hair, or adjust their clothes. This is done so they’ll look better for you. It’ll up their odds of getting you to be interested in them, too.
#11 He fidgets and seems restless. Aka, you make him nervous as hell! When a man is attracted to you sexually, he’ll want to make sure he behaves a certain way in order to get your attraction back.
The thing is, many guys feel pressured by this and it makes them really nervous. If you see a guy who can’t sit still around you, then he thinks you’re really hot.
#12 Lots of smiles. A guy can’t help but smile at a woman he thinks is attractive. It’s all about drawing her into him, too. And humans are automatically drawn to smiling. If he’s nothing but a smiley mess around you, it’s safe to assume he’s definitely into you.
#13 You catch him staring at inappropriate places. Your boobs, your butt, your lips. All of those places are things a guy fantasizes when he’s sexually attracted to you. Therefore, when you see a man staring at any of those places for an extended period of time, he’s totally thinking about you in a naughty way.
#14 He stands facing you the whole time. Something we do when we’re attracted to someone is turn our entire body to face them. This not only shows you he’s interested, it also gives him a better view of you as a whole.
#15 You feel it. Sexual attraction is a spark. It’ll ignite between the two of you and you’ll just be able to feel how much he’s into you. This doesn’t always go both ways. But even if you’re not into him, you’ll still be able to feel a sort of tension build between you two when a man is attracted to you sexually.
Sexual attraction is much different than being attracted to someone emotionally. If you’re unsure how to tell if a guy thinks you’re downright hot, these signs a man is attracted to you sexually will be sure to help.